It’s been 6 days since my last post and I want to apologize for that. I’m currently handling a new project and I got buried underneath tons of bugs to fix. But here I am with the second episode of Wisdom Exchange Monday. Lately I’ve come across quite a lot of people talking about how happy they were in a polyamorous relationship allowing them to have several lovers while still being committed to one other polyamorous person. The subject seems to also be huge around the internet right now so I decided to make it a subject for today. I have been single for a little over a year now for personal growth reasons. But I’ve been on a few dates since then. It never really worked for me because I’m quite asexual/sapiosexual and intellectual in nature which is bad for dates since most people want to hook up and have meaningless sexual encounters… I’m not against it, it’s just not for me. Most people I met in my life so far seem to feel a lot empty and insecure which makes me realize how important self-love is. So not so long ago, I decided to completely remove myself from the online dating scene. I decided that I wasn’t ready for any kind of intimacy just yet… I’m also letting go of someone that I dearly love but can’t seem to see eye to eye… Anyways, after everything I realized how clueless I was about how relationships work… If it was just for me, it wouldn’t be that complicated… But it’s hard to just let things happen in an organic way for most people… I find the process in getting in a relationship really unnatural. Well, so far it is my experience… Inorganic. This has brought a lot of questions under my scope… Although very much monogamous in nature, I wonder… Are polyamourous happier than monogamous people? Is Polyamory The New Relationship Model? Could you do it? Are you in a polyamourous relationship? What are your thoughts? Feel free to leave your wisdom mark in the comment section below.
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