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Wisdom Exchange Monday – Is Polyamory The New Relationship Model?

It’s been 6 days since my last post and I want to apologize for that. I’m currently handling a new project and I got buried underneath tons of bugs to fix. But here I am with the second episode of Wisdom Exchange Monday. Lately I’ve come across quite a lot of people talking about how happy they were in a polyamorous relationship allowing them to have several lovers while still being committed to one other polyamorous person.  The subject seems to also be huge around the internet right now so I decided to make it a subject for today. I have been single for a little over a year now for personal growth reasons. But I’ve been on a few dates since then. It never really worked for me because I’m quite asexual/sapiosexual and intellectual in nature which is bad for dates since most people want to hook up and have meaningless sexual encounters… I’m not against it, it’s just not for me. Most people I met in my life so far seem to feel a lot empty and insecure which makes me realize how important self-love is.  So not so long ago, I decided to completely remove myself from the online dating scene. I decided that I wasn’t ready for any kind of intimacy just yet… I’m also letting go of someone that I dearly love but can’t seem to see eye to eye… Anyways, after everything I realized how clueless I was about how relationships work…  If it was just for me, it wouldn’t be that complicated… But it’s hard to just let things happen in an organic way for most people… I find the process in getting in a relationship really unnatural. Well, so far it is my experience… Inorganic. This has brought a lot of questions under my scope… Although very much monogamous in nature, I wonder… Are polyamourous happier than monogamous people? Is Polyamory The New Relationship Model? Could you do it? Are you in a polyamourous relationship? What are your thoughts? Feel free to leave your wisdom mark in the comment section below.

I wish infinite love, health, healing, wealth, success, happiness, awareness, peace and wisdom upon your soul.


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13 thoughts on “Wisdom Exchange Monday – Is Polyamory The New Relationship Model?

  1. That’s an interesting thought. Being in a relationship with just ONE person is A LOT of work lol I can’t imagine being monogamous with 2 or 3 people but I could see why the freedom of not being confined to one person is enticing to others.

    Good read!

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    1. Thank you for your time Adriana. I’m happy to see you posting here again. I agree with you. Trying to maintain one relationship is already hard enough that is in a monogamous mind. But polyamourous don’t see it that way… Some of them are even trying to pass it as the new standard model of relationship stipulating it is healthier and better for personal growth as well as a couple. Thank you for your opinion. Have an amazing day. Infinite peace and wisdom!

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    1. Thank you for your time Therese. I’d like to precise that i’m not polyamourous. I decided to make it a subject of discussion purely to collect views. Looking around and watching few documentaries, it seems to not only attracts young people but older people as well. Some people even live with their other lovers and raise kids together. Thank you for your opinion. I hope all is well with you. Infinite peace and wisdom!

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    1. Thank you for your time Ryan. I think that is another way of seeing it. But every time a polygamous tells me about the freedom of options, I tend to wonder;why not remain single then? So the need to connect with one person is still at the base of the relationship… no?

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      1. But what I was saying is even in a poly relationship, the base of the relationship is one other person? No? All poly couples I have encountered have at least one person who is the “main” which leads me to think there is still some form of monogamy in a polygamous relationship… no?

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  2. I am two yrs post LTR with a lesbian, no wait a bisexual woman…actually, poly now dating a married couple. I’ve considered it and spent 2016 exploring all possibilities. Well, it’s fucking work and I value my independence more. Also, I know more poly peeps that are not “out and about” to all bc the risk of disclosure can be disastrous 😦

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      1. I see… I don’t know what to tell you… I read your blog and it seems to me polygamy is not your choice per se… but I might be wrong. Anyways. Whatever works… 😉

        Infinite love peace and wisdom!

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