Being taken for granted can either be good or bad. It depends on the circumstances and the feelings involved; Some people in our lives take us for granted as a mean to say “I trust you, I know you’ll be there for me unlike everybody else who let me down.” However, some people take us for granted and think they can play with our heart. They think they can do and say whatever they want because they believe we will always be there or come back. They tell us what they think we want to hear to keep us under their scope. They often time walk around with a chip on their shoulders thinking the Universe owes them something. Truth be told, just because we love them does not mean we have to deal with how they make us feel when they make us feel less of a soul. We don’t have to accept their behaviors nor deal with their emotional mess. People change is true. But sometimes the way they change is not in alignment with who we have become. Honestly, if you don’t feel comfortable nor ready to deal with someone’s life and everybody that comes with it, you don’t have to. Letting go is an act of love that is helping not only yourself grow but also helping others grow as well. It is okay and very healthy to move on, even when the temptations are very strong. Nobody ever really changes when they expect their world to be the same. If you have the feeling they will treat you the same way; listen to your guts. When their world starts shivering, they will begin transitioning and ascending in self-awareness. You deserve to be love and really appreciated for who you are. You don’t have to be there when their world starts crumbling. Even tho we are always guided and never truly lonely in this Universe; the journey of inner self-growth is a road we all have to internally walk alone. But remember this: we also take certain things and certain people for granted as well… So we also have to be very careful; The rules of the Universe apply to everybody.
I wish infinite love, health, healing, wealth, success, happiness, awareness, peace and wisdom upon your soul.