We’ve been taught to lower or to even completely eliminate our expectations… Why? To avoid getting hurt or deceived. Is it working? Not really. We get hurt one way or another. Why? Because the expectations we have come to us as guidance. They are there to signal us what we want and what we are worth. By eliminating expectations, we loose sight of our desires. It’s like loosing sight of our soul. Pessimists call them expectations, people who are more in tuned with their inner vibrations call them “downloads”, “bits” or “intuitive downloads.” Think I’m lying? Let’s turn to neurosciences. Neuroscientists can’t find consciousness in the brain. They have long speculated about the nature and origins of “consciousness.” Many of those scientists start to believe we are receivers of consciousness just like radio receive signals. When you meditate and silence your mind heavily, you sort of start feeling electric discharges going through your body as you concentrate on your breathing. When we breathe in and out at a rapid pace, repeatedly, it’s possible to alter our chemistry. If this does not prove anything to you, that we are vibrations, what about biology? 70% water. 30% molecules.
What is water? Life. Energy. Water, like many other element, can take on many many forms. It can go from boiling hot to freezing cold. Water evaporates. Water pours. Calm waters. Ice water. Deep waters. Troubled waters. Dirty waters. Clear waters… Wavy… Inviting… Repelling… It’s a bit like human beings, don’t you think? The analogy here is quite easy to picture and understand. Our expectations and our thoughts shape the form we take. What we believe we become. When our heart turns cold, we turn cold. That’s why it’s important you keep your expectations high… But, also, understand that the only expectations we can have are about what we can control. Other people are obviously out of the picture. We cant expect people to be the way we want because they can’t expect us to be the way they want us. However, everyone has the rights to expect to be treated right, fairly, respectfully, equally, lovingly, etc… Those kind of expectations should never be lowered or else they leave room for things we don’t want to experience. The people who tell you to lower your expectations are really not the ones you should listen to. They basically gave up…
Allowing yourself to have expectations is just like allowing your soul to guide you where you want to go. It’s not about having a big ego. It’s about knowing you are a human being who deserves to be treated as such. You are allowed to have hopes and dreams. As long as your goals are healthy and do not interfere with the well-being of someone else, you are allowed to expect to have every single one of your wishes met… But, obviously, you can’t expect people to do it for you…
It’s okay to have high expectations of life. You want to be treated right. You expect to be loved. You expect the truth. You expect loyalty…. You want the best for yourself, as it should be. You want the best for your kids and family. You want the best for your friends. You want the best of the relationships… Why? Because deep down inside, something is telling you, that you are worthy. That’s why anything that causes distress and pain, does not feel good to us. Anything other than love is unnatural.
So yes. You can have expectations. But here’s the thing. Are you the mirror of your expectations? Are you in alignment with what you expect? In other words, what you want, do you have it to offer? If you feel you do, then, keep vibrating at that level and it will sure come to you.
However… if you keep lowering your vibrations/expectations, you will never get what you truly deserve. If what you want is at level 5 but you keep yourself at level 2 for someone else, you will never reach your highest potential and this could possibly turn you sour or resentful. So now you understand. This also goes the other way around. Same way you would not like people to keep you from climbing mountains, don’t limit others. Be free. Let them free.
Release. Align. Attract. Manifest.
I wish infinite love, health, healing, wealth, success, happiness, awareness, peace and wisdom upon your soul.