The quality of our answers/solutions are directly related to the quality of our questions.
In order to get more clarity, we must first come from a neutral place. Try to eliminate all prejudices, judgements and negative emotions you have before asking any questions. For instance, take a sheet of paper and divide it in two. One column is the negative side and the other one is the positive side. Now ask a question you seek answers to. For every negative answer you receive, write down 2 positive answers.
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You can use this technique for a myriad of questions related to anything from relationships, business, career, friendships, family, money, etc. It’s a great introspection technique that help gain tremendous clarity by focusing on positive answers. Doing this also train your brain to see good in every situation and create new neural pathways. It’s a great form of meditation. At first mostly negative answers will come to you. But after a while, you will come to realize every situation happens most of the time for good reasons you did not want to see. If you do this honestly, you will uncover really satisfying solutions to every problem you think you have.
There is good in every situation. No matter how sad, angry, resentful, bitter, depressed we can get, the solutions are always right around the corner. They appear when we choose to acknowledge them. Nothing happens out of the blue. Love is always in the air, baby. Love is always there. Just stop looking down, look up.
I wish infinite love, health, healing, wealth, success, happiness, awareness, peace and wisdom upon your soul