The Power Of Allowing – What Are You Allowing?

Let’s take a moment and talk about the art of allowing. Most of us practice this art unconsciously and subconsciously.  We allow News to instill fear in us. We allow society to categorize us. We allow our family to keep us from truly being who we want to be. We allow people to treat us like crap. We allow people to lie and take from us. We allow bad things to happen. We allow ourselves to be miserable. We allow drugs and or alcohol to control us. We allow disease and illness to kill us. We allow ourselves to experience uncomfortable circumstances for far too long. We close our eyes and allow ourselves to be blinded. We allow ourselves to be mean to others… We allow ourselves to be unhappy in unhealthy relationships…


Think about that for a moment. What are you allowing in your life? Are you allowing more bad than good? Are you allowing hate, fear, resentment, jealousy, envy, anger and sadness to take over your heart? Are you allowing your ego to control your soul? Are you allowing anxiety, depression or mental illness to control your mind?


It’s important that we take a conscious look at what we are allowing to manifest in our reality. What we allow is what control our life. If we allow society to shape us, well society controls us. If we allow mental illness to dictate who we are, well mental illness we then become. If we allow sadness to take over our heart, sad our heart becomes. If you allow people to walk all over you and treat you like crap, it becomes your main experience. Sometimes we allow certain things to happen because we are afraid of our own power. We are afraid to walk alone. We are afraid because we allow fear to control us.


When we become aware of the art of conscious allowing, we can take back our power. Thing is, some people rather play victim and be miserable all their life than admit the misery is their own creation. You probably know people like that. People who love to complain and tell you how it’s not their fault. It’s the circumstances. Well, you now understand it has everything to do with what they are allowing to happen maybe unconsciously or maybe they do it consciously, who knows.


Becoming conscious, woke and aware of what we allow to happen in our life is the ultimate key to betterment, prosperity, wealth, health, peace, happiness, wisdom and love. You can’t change the people around you. But you can change yourself. Stop complaining about things you keep allowing to happen. You can’t awaken people around you. You have to let them sleep if they are not ready to be awakened. Chances are they will be mad at you for taking them away from their comfortable sleep. But it does not change the fact that you can become more aware and be ready when they finally decide to snap out of their fantasy. If they ever.


So you want to ask yourself today, what are you allowing in your life that you should stop allowing? If it can help you getting started here’s the really short version of a list I have come with a year ago :

  • I stop allowing people making me feel i’m not enough;

  • I stop allowing people making me feel like there’s something wrong with me because i’m different from them;

  • I stop allowing hurt people to hurt me;

  • I stop allowing people to bring drama and confusion in my life;

  • I stop allowing negative circumstances and society to instill fear in me and put me in a box;

  • I stop allowing lack and mediocrity;


Now this exercise wouldn’t be complete if we didn’t make a list of things we are now allowing. So here’s a short list of things I have been allowing:

  • I allow myself to be happy and experience nothing but good;

  • I allow myself to exist, live and fulfill my dreams;

  • I allow abundance, prosperity, health, wealth, success, peace and love to completely take over my life;

  • I allow myself to say no to others without feeling guilty;

  • I allow myself to take care of my desires and my needs;

  • I allow myself to be free from scarcity, experience joy and fulfillment;


What about you? What’s your list?

I wish infinite love, health, healing, wealth, success, happiness, awareness, peace and wisdom upon your soul


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