We don’t make people good, we find them good – John Rohn
Along side with Les Brown and many others, John Rohn was one of the best motivational speakers of his time. I wish I would have caught on to that information in my teenage years. But hey let’s not reminisce. I’m happy I have access to that knowledge and wisdom now. It saves me a lot of time and energy. It validates me as well. I believe that’s why most of us either hang around people with same behaviors and beliefs or try to change others to see life our way.
We want to be validated. We want to be so right that sometimes we forget about feeling right and being healthy. We argue with our ego. We hold on to our beliefs. We divide ourselves. We fail at seeing the beauty in our differences. This is an energy killer. So anyway… here’s a little cheat-sheet how we can preserve our energy.
Let’s focus on things we can change : You can’t control people nor change them because change has to come from within. It’s not because they are on a different path than you that it means they are on a wrong path. We all see the world and experience reality from a different level of consciousness. People can only meet us as deep as they’ve met themselves and you can only meet them as deep as you’ve met yourself.
The spark has to come from within us. We can’t see what we’re not ready to see. We can’t hear what we’re not ready to hear. We can’t receive what we’re not ready to receive. We won’t go where we’re not ready to go. So focusing on things we can change is one of the best ways to preserve our energy. Invest your energy on things willing to change so that you don’t waste your time.
Let go of anything resisting you. You’ve probably notice the more you try to make someone see the world how you see it, the more they resist your views. If someone is not ready to hear your message or is not ready to love and respect the person you are, it’s a sign that you need to release control and let them be so that you can be free. Preserve your energy.
Never dumb yourself down or deem your light just because you are afraid of being alone. The Universe always sends someone.
Whoever is meant for you will always find their way to you and whatever is meant for you will never miss you. But you have to at least be on the right frequency. Meaning on your frequency. Don’t worry about them, they’ll find their way, their frequency. It’s hard when we love someone we want them on our frequency. But sometimes we meet people so that we can help each other find our respective frequency.
If you feel ready to change and they’re not. Time to let go. Don’t ever let anyone or any situation cut your beautiful wings, baby. And don’t ever cut anyone theirs, you know what I mean? We’re all entitled to our own wings.
I wish infinite love, health, healing, wealth, success, happiness, awareness, peace and wisdom upon your soul