It only takes one person to break an entire family curse. -Unknown
Now, I listen to so many motivational seminars during a week that I don’t quite remember who said that, might have been John C. Maxwell, Mr. Rohn, Les Brown, Maya Angelou, Miles Munroe or someone else. I can’t remember the name, but whoever that is, it strongly resonated with me in ways I can’t describe. It may resonate with you right now. Good.
Here’s a strong list of different family curses :
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Depression;
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Mental illness;
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Abandonment;
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Premature death;
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Obesity;
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Extreme poverty;
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Limiting beliefs;
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Middle class poverty mindset;
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Physical illness;
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Low achievers;
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Molestation or pedophilia;
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Rigid thinking;
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Religious cults;
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Incest;
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Dishonesty;
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Manipulation;
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Divorce;
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Criminality;
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Physical violence;
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Anxiety;
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Negative thinking;
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Jealousy;
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Sexual abuse;
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Terminal diseases;
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Mental abuse;
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Envy;
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Alcoholism;
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Drug addiction;
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Apathy;
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Extreme low self-esteem;
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Cheating mindset;
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Etc.
I’m sure you can fill the blank and come up with examples on your own. We usually arrive in a family plagued by at least one of those curses. Sometimes even more than just one. If your family has no curse, well stop reading, I’m not talking to you. Get out of here lol.
The good news are that the Universe never makes mistakes. For every curse is born a blessing. It always sends at least one, sometimes two people with a different mentality.
And that person may be you. You may have arrived through the means of adoption or conception. It does not matter. Although, if you are adopted the efforts will be doubled since you have two families.
Few clues that may reveal you are the one :
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Everyone in your family thinks you are weird;
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Very few members understand you or know how to deal with you;
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You don’t quite behave like they do;
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Something inside you want to rise above your circumstances;
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You are struggling to get approval sometimes;
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You literally think your family is weird;
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You don’t feel like they love you like the others;
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In some extreme cases, you think they are wrong;
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Etc.
REALLY good post, friend! Felt like you were talking directly to me! ❤
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Thanks Amanda. I’m glad to hear from you. Long time no see. Where have you been? Hopefully if you went on vaca you brought me back something. Email them to me at altdimensionstudio@gmail.com loll 😛 😊
Jokes aside…
I’m glad it resonates with you. It resonates strongly with me as well and if someone else can find value in the message, it’s even better.
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I just took a little break. I only blog when I have something to say, lol. My mind/spirit took a little hiatus. I do that from time to time (no clue why). No vacay though, lol.
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Hmmm. Yeah I get it… I know how it used to feel to be at lost with words… I couldn’t reach because I didn’t understand what it represented for me…
But once I got there, my blog became a second membrane for me it’s now impossible to leave it alone. It’s like a baby I feed. Put water on my seeds. You know what I mean? But I only reached that point when I let my emotions loose…
Then since we feel everyday, turns out I never run out of things to say. I realize it’s not so much about who reads me but what feeds me. The more we let go, the deeper the journey. Whatever goes on in my heart I release freely even if it means I must go back in time.
All that came with the realization that my life is now. Perfect time is just now, you know? There will be no whistle and angels coming down with a sign.
Looking back at my life, today I wonder, what the hell was I waiting for to just be me and do the things I want to do? I started to release when I understood nobody would push me or validate my path. At one point, It started feeling really uncomfortable to wait so I started taking action towards being the person I felt I was meant to be inside… You know that little voice that says “hey hey set me free”? I think it’s in all of us. Some of us tell her to shut up. Some of us tell her to wait and wait and wait and wait and… It will always be scary and difficult, you know. But, it does get easier from time to time. It’s much better than having regrets.
I’m speaking in metaphors and only in relation to me of course…
Take great care it’s important 😉
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I hear you. And I appreciate the commentary. My blogging tends to be closely related to my mental cycles. This was simply a brief ‘winter’, if you will. Time for growth below the surface, if you will. 🙂
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Of course… We all go through seasons and we all deal with them differently. Good news is after winters come springs and summers 😉
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