It’s not the way that I speak that is harsh, it’s the truth that I speak that is.
Hope you’re doing good. I think I know what differentiates the strong from the weak. Well, many things do but one of those things is someone’s ability/capacity to handle the truth and deal with reality from higher places.
If you ask me, I prefer an ugly truth over a beautiful lie any day. The reason for this is that it allows me to take clear decisions. Some lies sound great in theory but in practice they are never pragmatical because one lie always leads to another to cover the first lie then the next… It never ends. Then the only thing left is hide or flee.
That’s why I’m always rooting for the ultimate truth because I don’t like to hide. I tell the truth and it’s over with. No hidden fear that they will discover I have manipulated them. I believe that’s why most people trust me. They know they can come to me and I will tell it exactly how it is. They respect me for that. Only liars fear the truth.
However, I could not care less about some insecure liar with ten different personalities. I also understand that no matter how bad one cannot handle the truth, they will always remember I told the truth at the end.
That’s what people remember.
Although they may leave and hide because you told them the truth, in the back of their mind, they will always remember you were considerate enough to give them the full picture and not sugar coat.
Coming from that perspective, I no longer feel sorry for speaking truth.
Nobody should feel bad for telling the truth. Understand that some people have a hard time dealing with things they can’t control. And unlike lies, the truth can’t be controlled. If it is being controlled, it is not true. Once it’s discovered, it cannot be forgotten.
I’m a truth seeker and I rather be remembered as the brutal honest one than the nice shady one. If people remember you as being shady, it will take you a lifetime to get their trust back. So no matter how bad and ugly you believe the truth to be, tell the truth. Trust me. You will sleep better at night and they will thank you for it, even if they start ignoring you or disappear from your life.
It’s not personal.
Realize that the people who can’t handle the truth and deal with reality from higher places have lots of insecurities and so they often build a false reality they think they can control.
It’s a neurotic behavior in practice. Those are the kind of individuals who think they have to protect you from the truth thinking they are doing you a favor. They don’t realize they are harming you and themselves in the process. For many people the truth is too painful to handle. And it’s true. I mean it takes a solid backbone and an unbreakable spirit to be able to stand stills in the face of harsh reality.
I understand that some people are more equipped to deal with it but it does not mean we should lie to protect the weaker ones. That’s not how you make someone stronger. Lies make people weaker.
In my book, ignorance is far from being bliss. The more we know, the further we can progress.
One thing to also remember, there are as many truths there are human beings.
But anyway. Whatever the case may be, just shed your skin. Part ways with all of your masks and let people see your bare face.
Makeup is for people who have things to hide. If you ever meet me in person, you will see I have a very peculiar face that does not show on pictures. I don’t care, I love it.
Be honest with yourself and just watch how powerful your truth can be.
Infinite love, health, healing, wealth, success, happiness, awareness, peace and wisdom your way