Thinking for oneself seems to be very rare among humans. Many people say they think for themselves but their actions and behaviors contradict what they say. Their meaning of things come from someone or something else.
Have you ever thought about what is the meaning of things for you?
For instance, what is your meaning of success? Is it yours or is it somebody elses?
What is your meaning of love? What should love be and not be?
What is your meaning of gender? According to you, how should someone from a specific gender behave? What does gender mean to you?
What is your meaning of race? What does it mean to be white? What does it mean to be black? What does it mean to be brown, yellow, purple…?
What is the meaning of things for you? Does it come from you or do you subscribe to society and someone else’s meaning of things?
I have realized that many people are scared to be alone in their own meanings of things so they subscribe to meanings that don’t always serve them…
One huge mistake someone can make is ascribing meaning based on superficial things like physical appearance, weight, race, gender, age, skin color, sexual orientation…
Some people think that because they are female, it means they have to be a certain way… Others think because their skin color is a certain tone, it means they must think and behave according to a given sets of rules… etc.
Most people subscribe to social, cultural, familial, racial and sexual meanings without giving it a second thought…
It’s okay to give things their own meanings, you know.
It’s also very okay to change meaning as you progress and change in life. It’s even more than suggested to adapt the meaning of things to the person you are at a given stage and time. Flexibility will never go out of fashion.
Nobody has to agree with you or even validate you.
Validate yourself. Be confident. Think for yourself…
And that’s the meaning of sexiness, well to me.
Infinite love, health, healing, wealth, success, happiness, awareness, peace and wisdom your way